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Practical and spiritual guidance for anyone facing the challenges of dying and death — whether their own death or that of a family member or friend.

The four authors draw on their personal stories, as well as on years of medical and pastoral experience. Their writing is full of sensitivity, empathy and wise understanding.

Each chapter focuses on a different area or question, so you can find what you need with ease. The final chapter concludes with a clear message of hope.

'This is one of the most practical books I have come across. The compassion, experience and faith of its authors shine through. I commend it very warmly indeed for the guidance it offers and the hope it provides.' Michael Lloyd, Principal, Wycliffe Hall, Oxford.

Contents

Foreword to the first edition by Lord Mackay of Clashfern

Start here (Introduction by Philip Giddings)

Why and how we need to talk about dying

Philip Giddings

Chapter 1

Coping with life-threatening illness

Elaine Sugden

Chapter 2

Difficult decisions

Elaine Sugden

Chapter 3

Talking about dying: When? Where? How?

Elaine Sugden

Chapter 4

Coping with the unexpected

Philip Giddings

Chapter 5

Suicide

Elaine Sugden

Chapter 6

The death of a baby

Elaine Sugden

Chapter 7

Talking to children

Elaine Sugden

Chapter 8

Talking about life after death

Martin Down

Chapter 9

Facing up to fear

Martin Down

Chapter 10

Praying for healing

Gareth Tuckwell

Chapter 11

Practical Matters

Martin Down

Chapter 12

Suggestions of ways to help

Elaine Sugden and Philip Giddings

Endpiece

Where to find more help

Useful Websites Bibliography

Appendix 1

Advance Care Planning

Appendix 2

Preparing for an expected death at home

Appendix 3

What to do after a death at home